At Pettis Webber Pacific, we spend a lot of time answering important questions about estate planning and elder law—because so many of the issues that affect us all don’t always get talked about. And one of the most common misconceptions we hear is, “I don’t need to worry about estate planning yet.”

But here’s the truth: delaying your estate plan can end up costing you—and your family—far more in the long run.

Estate planning is one of the most meaningful ways to care for your loved ones, but many parents struggle with the question: When should I start talking to my adult children about my estate plan? The answer is simple: as soon as it’s appropriate to involve them. Early, thoughtful conversations can prevent confusion, reduce conflict, and ensure your wishes are clearly understood and honored.