How to Leave Unequal Inheritances Without Creating Family Drama
Leaving an inheritance is one of the most personal acts of love and responsibility—but what happens when you don’t intend to divide things equally among your children or heirs?
Whether due to differences in financial need, caregiving roles, estrangement, or previous gifts during your lifetime, there are many valid reasons for leaving unequal inheritances. The challenge is how to do it without sparking conflict, confusion, or resentment.
At Pettis Webber Pacific, we help Washington families navigate this sensitive issue with clarity, compassion, and strategy—because your estate plan should reflect your values and protect your relationships.
How to Handle an Estate When There’s No Will: Your Legal Options in Washington State
Losing a loved one is never easy—and when that person passes away without a will, it can add stress and uncertainty to an already emotional time. You may be wondering who’s in charge, how assets will be distributed, and whether probate is even necessary.
At Pettis Webber Pacific, we help families across Washington State navigate this exact situation. The good news is: there is a legal process in place for estates without a will, and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Understanding Medicaid Planning: How to Qualify Without Losing Everything
For many families, the rising cost of long-term care is one of the biggest financial threats they face in retirement. Nursing home care in Washington State can cost upwards of $100,000 per year—and most private insurance policies don’t cover it. That’s where Medicaid can be a vital lifeline.
But here’s the challenge: qualifying for Medicaid doesn’t happen automatically. And without careful planning, families are often forced to spend down their assets, sell property, or drain retirement accounts just to meet eligibility requirements.
The good news? With proactive legal guidance, you can qualify for Medicaid without losing everything you’ve worked a lifetime to build. The tools you can use to help are actually written in the law, but only help if you know about them.
When Should You Update Your Will or Trust? Key Life Events to Watch For
Creating a will or trust is one of the most important steps you can take to protect your loved ones and ensure your wishes are carried out. But even the best estate plan isn’t meant to sit untouched for decades.
At Pettis Webber Pacific, we often tell clients that estate planning isn’t a one-time event—it’s an ongoing process. As your life changes, so should your plan. Failing to update your documents could result in unintended consequences, family conflict, or assets ending up in the wrong hands.
